By Mahdi Haliru
The sad moments began in the early hours
of sunday, 23rd september 2012. I was fast asleep after the quotidian subh
prayers when an intense knock woke me up - "Wake up! Wake up!! Abba is seriously ill" First, i
thought i was in a dream because i've never ever imagined to witness in my life
a 'seriously ill Abba'. In
consternation; startling and frightened at the same time valorous, i swiftly
reached to him. I, along with my brothers then quickly rushed him to the
hospital(AKTH). Arriving AKTH was when i received the greatest shock of my
life... "i'm very sorry but doctors are currently on strike" a dude
in front of the emergency unit said to me. This actually meant the patient is
likely not to be attended to. But gladly, he was later admitted after some
forces within intervened. I often hurt my feelings each time i remember these
sad moments. To cut the long story short, Abba later died three days after. (May
his soul continue to rest in peace.. Ameen)
When someone you love passes away, there
is a strong temptation to remember him perhaps a little too well. Misdeeds are
forgotten - offences are forgiven. Only the most shining characteristics of the
loved one stick to us when he depart. Except for Abba, he offended no one - infact we owe
him! I owe him particularly; I owe him 'loads' of which i cannot repay but only
with prayers - though i sometimes feel my feeble prayers will do less justice
to the Late Justice.
Abba left behind a big family who loved him dearly. He was an overprotective father. Specifically to me; in cases for example when i fell sick, Abba stays awake all night and all day just to see me sleep well. He encouraged me to 'shake it off' when he knew i was'nt in dire physical pain. He provided me with a never ending sense of physical safety and emotional security. He taught me the significance of humility and the remarkable power of emotional and financial generosity. Abba never lied to me and always speak to me the ultimate truth no matter how unpleasant! It's being said "All work without play makes Jack a dull boy" Abba encouraged me to play lots of football, sometimes in the neighbourhood. He taught me the importance of health and excercise.
Like every loving father, he crack jokes
when the atmosphere becomes intense and was also a strict displinarian - there
are actually no grey areas for him. I often desperately want to impress him and
any acknowkedged appreciation from him of my weak efforts to impress him give
me lots of joy. His recommendations were always 'work hard; study hard and pray
hard - the sky is your limit' which i vowed to stick to. Abba was indeed a true hero; a great
teacher and an extraordinary father. A pious man who had full wisdom and
excellent islamic knowledge as well as the islamic teachings, Abba's solution to every
problem was supplication to Allah.
Ordinary folks remember him as a role
model they look up to. His fellow jurists described him as an upright honest
and intelligent man who is fearlessly and tirelessly committed to delivery of
the appropriate services; a man of principle who possessed enviable talents.
Allahummaghfir lahu Allahumma thabbithu
May his soul rest in perfect peace and may Aljannah be his final abode. Amen
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Deleteameen ya rabbi
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